I NEED SOME LOVE ADVICE

[kalbo22]

SO MY BOYFRIEND AND I STARTED DATING FOR FOUR MONTHS NOW ! BUT RECENTLY EVERYTHING SEEMS OFF , LAST WEEK WHILE I WAS AT WORK I SAW HES EX TAGGING HIM A PICTURE NA NAG LUNCH SILA TOGETHER, I GOT REALLY MAD TO THE POINT THAT I WAS ARGUING WITH HIM ON TEXT.I TOLD HIM HOW INSENSITIVE AND HOW ABOUT RESPECT, AND THEN HE JUST TOLD ME WHATS WRONG WITH HAVING LUNCH WITH HES EX, AND SO I REASON OUT NA BECAUSE HES YOUR EX AND YOU DIDNT TELL ME AND SABI DIN NYA AFTER WARDS FINE ILL TEXT YOU WHEN WERE GOING TO SEE AGAIN, 2 DAYS AFTER NAGKITA KAMI SABI KO I WAS REALLY UPSET BECAUSE NAKIKIPAGKITA PA NGA SYA AND I THOUGHT THEY WERE JUST FRIENDS AT DI NA NAGKIKITA PERO LAKING BIGLA KO NUNG SINABI NYA SA AKIN NA NAGKIKITA SILA EVERY THURSDAY, NANGINGINIG AKO MGA SIS LOL. PERO SABI NYA SAKIN NA IF LALABAS SILA EH I TETEXT NYA AKO OR I INVITE NYA AKO TO EAT WITH THEM , PERO TODAY ITS THURSDAY HE TEXTED ME NA HES HAVING DINNER WITH HIM. EWAN KO ANONG NARAMDAMAN KO PERO NAGING BITCH AKO SABI KO SO SAN KAYO PUPUNTA AFTER , KAKO MALAPIT KALANG SA BAHAY DI KA BA MAKIKIPAG KITA SAKIN? SO PUMUNTA SYA SA BAHAY AFTER 15 MINUTES. GUSTO KO NA SANA MAKI PAG HIWALAY KASI PARANG DI PA SYA NAKA GET OVER SA EX NYA. PERO MAHAL KO NA KASI. INIISIP KO GANTO BA TALAGA CULTURE NG MGA KANO? OR NASA WRONG GUY LANG TALAGA AKO LOL. SA TINGIN NYO? ANONG DAPAT KUNG GAWIN? GUSTO KO SABUNUTAN ANG THAI NA EX NYA LOL. AHAHAHHAHA

[Jimbo Redux]

Kano lang pala eh.

Break.

You're being played.

May loyal ng mga kano..at meron din player.

[kalbo22]

Kano lang pala eh.

Break.

You're being played.

GUSTO KO MUNANG MAKITA SILANG DALAWA NANG HARAPAN AT SASABIHIN KO SA KANYA F--CK OFF WERE OVER LOL

[Jimbo Redux]

Kano lang pala eh.

Break.

You're being played.

GUSTO KO MUNANG MAKITA SILANG DALAWA NANG HARAPAN AT SASABIHIN KO SA KANYA F--CK OFF WERE OVER LOL

Dont make a scene.

It will make matter worse.

[kalbo22]

Kano lang pala eh.

Break.

You're being played.

GUSTO KO MUNANG MAKITA SILANG DALAWA NANG HARAPAN AT SASABIHIN KO SA KANYA F--CK OFF WERE OVER LOL

Dont make a scene.

It will make matter worse.

RIGHT I GUESS I JUST HAVE TO LET HIM GO . IF HE WILL SAY SOMETHING THEN I GUESS I MATTER TO HIM IF DOESNT THEN DI SIGURO NYA TALAGA AKO MAHAL

[Jimbo Redux]

Kano lang pala eh.

Break.

You're being played.

GUSTO KO MUNANG MAKITA SILANG DALAWA NANG HARAPAN AT SASABIHIN KO SA KANYA F--CK OFF WERE OVER LOL

Dont make a scene.

It will make matter worse.

RIGHT I GUESS I JUST HAVE TO LET HIM GO . IF HE WILL SAY SOMETHING THEN I GUESS I MATTER TO HIM IF DOESNT THEN DI SIGURO NYA TALAGA AKO MAHAL

Exactly...malalaman mo naman kung mahal ka nga nya o hindi.

In the meantime....hang out with your friends..kung sya he can do it...syempre you can do it too.

Just chill.

[kalbo22]

Kano lang pala eh.

Break.

You're being played.

GUSTO KO MUNANG MAKITA SILANG DALAWA NANG HARAPAN AT SASABIHIN KO SA KANYA F--CK OFF WERE OVER LOL

Dont make a scene.

It will make matter worse.

RIGHT I GUESS I JUST HAVE TO LET HIM GO . IF HE WILL SAY SOMETHING THEN I GUESS I MATTER TO HIM IF DOESNT THEN DI SIGURO NYA TALAGA AKO MAHAL

Exactly...malalaman mo naman kung mahal ka nga nya o hindi.

In the meantime....hang out with your friends..kung sya he can do it...syempre you can do it too.

THANKS=) IM JUST CONFUSED SOMETIMES BECAUSE HE TOLD ME IM THE BEST BOYFRIEND HE HAVE PERO I FELT LIKE IM BEING CHEATED

[Jimbo Redux]

Kano lang pala eh.

Break.

You're being played.

GUSTO KO MUNANG MAKITA SILANG DALAWA NANG HARAPAN AT SASABIHIN KO SA KANYA F--CK OFF WERE OVER LOL

Dont make a scene.

It will make matter worse.

RIGHT I GUESS I JUST HAVE TO LET HIM GO . IF HE WILL SAY SOMETHING THEN I GUESS I MATTER TO HIM IF DOESNT THEN DI SIGURO NYA TALAGA AKO MAHAL

Exactly...malalaman mo naman kung mahal ka nga nya o hindi.

In the meantime....hang out with your friends..kung sya he can do it...syempre you can do it too.

THANKS=) IM JUST CONFUSED SOMETIMES BECAUSE HE TOLD ME IM THE BEST BOYFRIEND HE HAVE PERO I FELT LIKE IM BEING CHEATED

Ang mga kano naman....just tell them what you feel.

[gerald john]

pagpaganda ka teh..I mean wag kang mag-papaalas sa mga TAE na yan!

[kalbo22]

pagpaganda ka teh..I mean wag kang mag-papaalas sa mga TAE na yan!

TE MAS MAGANDA TALAGA AKO SA EX NYA HINDI SA PAG MAMAYABANG LOL. PERO SABI NGA NILA KAHIT GANO KAPA KAGANDA KUNG IBA NAMAN ANG GUSTO NYA EH WALA PA RIN ANG GANDA KO TE LOL

[markita]

first tell him ur spending a ight with ur ex. wait for his reaction. if he does not react....well. leave him this instant.. and yeah maybe he's playin wd u.

[Thaiboy]

Trust me, this always works
1. NEVER show your insecurities and depression
2. as much as it bothers you that he's meeting his ex, just smile and say "have fun!" like it isn't a big deal
3. Play hard to get, let him know you have plans, or if you don't have plans (pretend you have one). but don't elaborate on your plans. If he ask, either don't reply or reply 4 hours later because you had so much fun without him
4. If all this doesn't get his attention, dump him before you get dumped. Pride is everything. Create an illusion like you have someone esle too even though you might just be miserably lonely. Back to rule 1. Never show your insecurities/depression
5. After you dump him, send him this text " i'm better than your ex and definitely your next!

[marco8batangas]

Start looking for a real love....a loyal one.....hindi sya loyal sau...baka akala mo e EX na sila...eh ikaw pala ang future EX....

[marco8batangas]

Wala pa kahit isa repu point ang TS....2009 pa sya member...?

[andier]

Girll.... hinay hinay lang... basig taas ra kaau kag expectations niya... if friends ra sila ug nagmeet...walay problema... pero if magjerjer na dinha na ang problema.... ubani sila if magdate sila..observe.... naa man gud mag ex pero they remain as friends....

[Barbie Dahl]

vakz, ano bahhh, niloloko ka na ng harapan, ano yannn, DENIAL QUEEN lang ang peg..... dump him asap,,, then move on and go to the next

[Daxrolf]

First of all avoid "DRAMA" and confrontations
Keep your self respect and your pride intact. Do not do anything that will make you look insecured and bitchy!
The mere fact, that you recognized that he hasn't gotten over his past relationship is a sign for you to EXIT graciously! if he truly feels something deep for you and is concern about keeping your relationship, the fact that you got annoyed when you first learned about his seeing his ex again should have made him stop doing what he continues to do till now. Your feeling as his bf should have been his main concern.
Sad but true, He and his ex ain't over and before it hurt/stressed you more...cut him free.
Have a final dinner and then tell him your decision. Tell him you hold no grudge and to enjoy himself and if ever he wants to come back, to see/call you when he has sorted out what and who he wants in his life.
If he ask for a second chance say NO! Tell him you both need this space to evaluate if what you have is worth saving.
Do not call or text and let him court you again if he wants to come back. Make him work hard to get you again and realized your value in his life. Make him know there are consequences to all his selfish actions and decisions.
If inspite of this you end up still losing him then he really wasn't yours ...just be content you had him even if for a short time.

[marco8batangas]

vakz, ano bahhh, niloloko ka na ng harapan, ano yannn, DENIAL QUEEN lang ang peg..... dump him asap,,, then move on and go to the next

Naisip ko lang, ang problema ng TS, baliw sya sa pag ibig.....
Harapang panloloko na...ayaw pa aminin sa sarili nya....
At parang ayaw nya humiwalay sa ten-timer nyang bf....

What a love...!

[Lulu Jo Abbas]

Hala Vaks, kajerjer ko pa rin ang Ex ko occasionally hanggang ngaun pag pumunta dito sa Pinas galing Thailand para makapag-renew lang ng visa. Bitoy kasi cya at may jowang Thai at doon na cya naka-base. Nakilala ko cya nung mag-abroad ako. Wala din kasi kaming formal na hiwalayan at ang dahilan sa aming parting ways ay ang naputol naming communications. Bigla na lang kaming nagkita uli after more or less two years sa Telephone Bar sa Bangkok. Well, sinasabi nya saken ang kanyang mga hinain...and I show my sympathy pero walang string attached...touch-touch na lang...chozzz..

At tungkol sa love problem mo, Vaks, actually wala akong nakikitang problema kundi ang iyong mga 'wild imaginings' based on your narration, tama ba? If it's love, start building trust in him. Allow some space for each other to breath and explore in order to have a place to go if things don't work out. Your four month old dating relationships is still on the stage of getting to know each other well, knowing that you have different cultural backgrounds. Don't love him with just a pity. Kung naawa ka lang sa kanya, you can always show your sympathy that you care without any string attached. Good luck!

[Preciosa Mapagbigay]

gurl, yung magagandang tulad naten, di dapat nagpapaloko sa mga boys na yan,
haleeeer, maglaway sila sa kakahabol saten noh

[kalbo22]

First of all avoid "DRAMA" and confrontations
Keep your self respect and your pride intact. Do not do anything that will make you look insecured and bitchy!
The mere fact, that you recognized that he hasn't gotten over his past relationship is a sign for you to EXIT graciously! if he truly feels something deep for you and is concern about keeping your relationship, the fact that you got annoyed when you first learned about his seeing his ex again should have made him stop doing what he continues to do till now. Your feeling as his bf should have been his main concern.
Sad but true, He and his ex ain't over and before it hurt/stressed you more...cut him free.
Have a final dinner and then tell him your decision. Tell him you hold no grudge and to enjoy himself and if ever he wants to come back, to see/call you when he has sorted out what and who he wants in his life.
If he ask for a second chance say NO! Tell him you both need this space to evaluate if what you have is worth saving.
Do not call or text and let him court you again if he wants to come back. Make him work hard to get you again and realized your value in his life. Make him know there are consequences to all his selfish actions and decisions.
If inspite of this you end up still losing him then he really wasn't yours ...just be content you had him even if for a short time.

THANKS FOR THE ADVICE=) YESTERDAY I WAS SO READY TO SAY SOMETHING BUT EWAN BA PAG NAKIKITA KO NA SIYA IS NANGHIHINA AKO PARANG NAWAWALA LAHAT NG GALIT KO. I SHOULD COMPOSE MYSELF AND TELL HIM THAT WE NEED TO COOL DOWN FIRST

[kalbo22]

gurl, yung magagandang tulad naten, di dapat nagpapaloko sa mga boys na yan,
haleeeer, maglaway sila sa kakahabol saten noh

YEAH RIGHT=) PERO DAIG TALAGA NG MALANDI ANG MAGANDA

[kalbo22]

Hala Vaks, kajerjer ko pa rin ang Ex ko occasionally hanggang ngaun pag pumunta dito sa Pinas galing Thailand para makapag-renew lang ng visa. Bitoy kasi cya at may jowang Thai at doon na cya naka-base. Nakilala ko cya nung mag-abroad ako. Wala din kasi kaming formal na hiwalayan at ang dahilan sa aming parting ways ay ang naputol naming communications. Bigla na lang kaming nagkita uli after more or less two years sa Telephone Bar sa Bangkok. Well, sinasabi nya saken ang kanyang mga hinain...and I show my sympathy pero walang string attached...touch-touch na lang...chozzz..

At tungkol sa love problem mo, Vaks, actually wala akong nakikitang problema kundi ang iyong mga 'wild imaginings' based on your narration, tama ba? If it's love, start building trust in him. Allow some space for each other to breath and explore in order to have a place to go if things don't work out. Your four month old dating relationships is still on the stage of getting to know each other well, knowing that you have different cultural backgrounds. Don't love him with just a pity. Kung naawa ka lang sa kanya, you can always show your sympathy that you care without any string attached. Good luck!

BAKA NGA NAG TOUCHING TOUCHING TO SILA O GOODNESS LOL.YUN NA NGA EH I TRUSTED HIM A LOT PERO AFTER THIS HAPPENED NA TINAGO NYA SA AKIN PARANG I DONT TRUST HIM NG BUO NA ,WHAT OTHER LIES DOES HE HAS? BUT ILL COMPOSE MYSELF , PERO IF I END THIS RELATIONSHIP SOONER ILL END IT UP WITH IN A HIGHER NOTE CHOS

[marco8batangas]

Ayan....

Nang dahil sa pagiging selosa ng TS, nagka 11 repu points na sya...

[kalbo22]

Ayan....

Nang dahil sa pagiging selosa ng TS, nagka 11 repu points na sya...

ahahahhahaha.

[rock5tar]

minsan mas maganda na ung unahan muna makipagbreak basta alam or may feeling ka na niloloko kana kesa hilingin or naisin mo pang mahuli sa akto mas masasaktan ka lang

[Backstreet Girls]

teh, wag Miss Universe gaano problemahin yang mga lalake na yan, dami pa dyan, nagkalat lang,,, sumali ka na lang ng Miss Gay Pageant, ang saya saya

[goddessoxana27]

SO MY BOYFRIEND AND I STARTED DATING FOR FOUR MONTHS NOW ! BUT RECENTLY EVERYTHING SEEMS OFF , LAST WEEK WHILE I WAS AT WORK I SAW HES EX TAGGING HIM A PICTURE NA NAG LUNCH SILA TOGETHER, I GOT REALLY MAD TO THE POINT THAT I WAS ARGUING WITH HIM ON TEXT.I TOLD HIM HOW INSENSITIVE AND HOW ABOUT RESPECT, AND THEN HE JUST TOLD ME WHATS WRONG WITH HAVING LUNCH WITH HES EX, AND SO I REASON OUT NA BECAUSE HES YOUR EX AND YOU DIDNT TELL ME AND SABI DIN NYA AFTER WARDS FINE ILL TEXT YOU WHEN WERE GOING TO SEE AGAIN, 2 DAYS AFTER NAGKITA KAMI SABI KO I WAS REALLY UPSET BECAUSE NAKIKIPAGKITA PA NGA SYA AND I THOUGHT THEY WERE JUST FRIENDS AT DI NA NAGKIKITA PERO LAKING BIGLA KO NUNG SINABI NYA SA AKIN NA NAGKIKITA SILA EVERY THURSDAY, NANGINGINIG AKO MGA SIS LOL. PERO SABI NYA SAKIN NA IF LALABAS SILA EH I TETEXT NYA AKO OR I INVITE NYA AKO TO EAT WITH THEM , PERO TODAY ITS THURSDAY HE TEXTED ME NA HES HAVING DINNER WITH HIM. EWAN KO ANONG NARAMDAMAN KO PERO NAGING BITCH AKO SABI KO SO SAN KAYO PUPUNTA AFTER , KAKO MALAPIT KALANG SA BAHAY DI KA BA MAKIKIPAG KITA SAKIN? SO PUMUNTA SYA SA BAHAY AFTER 15 MINUTES. GUSTO KO NA SANA MAKI PAG HIWALAY KASI PARANG DI PA SYA NAKA GET OVER SA EX NYA. PERO MAHAL KO NA KASI. INIISIP KO GANTO BA TALAGA CULTURE NG MGA KANO? OR NASA WRONG GUY LANG TALAGA AKO LOL. SA TINGIN NYO? ANONG DAPAT KUNG GAWIN? GUSTO KO SABUNUTAN ANG THAI NA EX NYA LOL. AHAHAHHAHA

Ganito lang yan teh! and of course, nasa saiyo ang final desisyon.

say



and



kung gusto mo ng dramatic exit,

ganito lang yan



then for the finale eksena sa kanya,



my two cents!!!!

[goddessoxana27]

Trust me, this always works
1. NEVER show your insecurities and depression
2. as much as it bothers you that he's meeting his ex, just smile and say "have fun!" like it isn't a big deal
3. Play hard to get, let him know you have plans, or if you don't have plans (pretend you have one). but don't elaborate on your plans. If he ask, either don't reply or reply 4 hours later because you had so much fun without him
4. If all this doesn't get his attention, dump him before you get dumped. Pride is everything. Create an illusion like you have someone esle too even though you might just be miserably lonely. Back to rule 1. Never show your insecurities/depression
5. After you dump him, send him this text " i'm better than your ex and definitely your next!

suggestion, believe the post of this creature. This creature is always dumped.
if you like...

[alexanderabelle]

Dump him. Even if they're not in a relationship anymore (which is highly unlikely), the lack of sensitivity towards what you may feel (and without so much as batting an eyelash when you asked him about it), especially since you're just a new couple (that period in which thinking about you should be at its highest), is a VERY bad sign.